On the Spectrum?

On the Spectrum?

Understanding and working with sophisticated autistic patients

Saturday 7 November 2026

With Raun K. Kaufman, Kate C. Wilde and Jane Ryan (Chair)

CPD Credits: 4 hours

With the current proliferation of autism diagnoses, it is becoming increasingly important for psychotherapists to deepen our understanding of the relational needs of people with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) who come to therapy for help with their lives.

Earlier this year we hosted a conference on understanding the emotional world of severely autistic people. Now we are extending this enquiry into the therapeutic needs of sophisticated and highly adaptive autistic people, whose autism is concealed by their abilities.

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FULL PROGRAMME

Raun K. Kaufman
The Five Natural Laws of Autism
In this day and age, it would be rare to have a therapeutic practice that did not include at least some neurodivergent or autistic patients or clients. Even if neurodivergence is not the focus of your practice, it is likely that you encounter people who could benefit greatly from your understanding and expertise.

Has a patient or client ever told you that they have been diagnosed as autistic, or that family members or significant others believe they may be on the spectrum? Have you worked with someone who openly wonders whether they are autistic? Or, perhaps more commonly, have you noticed unusual reactions or styles of communication and wondered whether, rather than stemming from an issue or pathology, they might reflect neurodivergence—particularly autism?

Helping autistic patients and clients requires both an understanding of how they experience the world and an ability to find ways of reaching them. This first presentation will introduce the five ‘Natural Laws of Autism’: fundamental aspects of autistic brains and nervous systems that are crucial to understand, yet easy to overlook or inadvertently violate.

Once you become familiar with these principles, you may feel as though a light has been switched on, enabling you to see some of your patients and clients in an entirely new way.

Discussion and Q&A

Kate C. Wilde
Detecting the Signals
This presentation will explore the key signals and characteristics that may indicate that a patient or client is on the autism spectrum. What is particularly helpful about these signals is that they are less concerned with specific behaviours—which can be misleading—and more with how the person functions, both in their life and within the therapeutic setting, and with the particular needs that arise from this.

We will consider social friction, nervous-system traits and the need for control, exploring how these signals can help you recognise and understand the possibility of autism.
We will also consider how best to respond when a patient or client expresses concerns about being recognised as autistic or receiving an autism diagnosis.

Discussion and Q&A

Kate C. Wilde
Creating a safe and stable platform for the patient/client to open up and participate in therapy
This presentation will take a deeper look at three primary ways of being and structuring therapeutic sessions so that autistic and neurodivergent patients and clients can feel safe, regulate themselves, connect with you and participate more fully in therapy.

We will explore how to:

  • Adapt the therapeutic environment to accommodate a sensitive nervous system and reduce the likelihood of overstimulation, overwhelm or stress.
  • Address a heightened need for control in ways that support self-regulation.
  • Relate in a non-threatening way, creating sufficient safety for the patient or client to open up and engage with you.

Discussion and Q&A

Raun K. Kaufman
Speaking their language
People on the spectrum—even those who are highly sophisticated—may shut down or resist if they feel that you are not “speaking their language.”

We often develop familiar ways of communicating, along with expectations about how communication should unfold. While these conventions are entirely understandable, they can sometimes get in the way of genuine back-and-forth communication with autistic and neurodivergent patients and clients.

This final presentation will explore three critical communication strategies for maximising a patient’s or client’s capacity to understand you, to communicate their thoughts, feelings and desires honestly, and to remain receptive to your input and guidance.
These strategies focus on how you speak, recognising and engaging with their special interests, and uncovering their underlying needs, fears and desires.

Discussion and Q&A

FEES

Includes: 1 year’s unlimited access and CPD certificate of attendance

INDIVIDUAL

£60 (or £48 Confer member)

GROUP RATE

£50pp in groups of over 10 (please apply to accounts@confer.uk.com)

CPD

Continuing Professional Development (CPD) credits for 4 hours are available as part of the course fee. You will need to pass a multiple choice questionnaire related to the content in order to receive your certificate (coming soon). You can submit this test up to a maximum of 5 times.

SCHEDULE

Raun K. Kaufman
The Five Natural Laws of Autism

Discussion and Q&A

Kate C. Wilde
Detecting the Signals

Discussion and Q&A

Kate C. Wilde
Creating a safe and stable platform for the patient/client to open up and participate in therapy

Discussion and Q&A

Raun K. Kaufman
Speaking their language

Discussion and Q&A

LEARNING OBJECTIVES

By attending this workshop virtually, participants will be able to:

By attending this event, participants will be able to:

  • Develop a deeper understanding of autism and neurodivergence, including the ways in which autistic nervous systems may shape perception, regulation, relationships and responses to the therapeutic environment.
  • Recognise less visible presentations of autism, particularly in sophisticated and highly adaptive individuals, by identifying patterns of social friction, nervous-system responses and needs for control that may otherwise be misunderstood as psychological or relational difficulties.
  • Distinguish autistic ways of functioning from pathology, developing greater curiosity about seemingly puzzling behaviours and considering what these behaviours may communicate about the person’s underlying needs.
  • Create a safer and more supportive therapeutic environmentby adapting the structure, environment and relational approach of sessions to reduce overwhelm, support self-regulation and enable greater participation and openness.
  • Develop more effective ways of communicating and connecting with autistic patients and clients, including adapting language, engaging with areas of particular interest, and identifying the underlying needs, fears and desires that may be difficult for the person to express directly.