On Loneliness

On Loneliness: Therapeutic growth and the capacity for solitude – Webcast Live from London

Is now available for purchase

With Lesley Caldwell, Dr Richard Gipps and Dr Akshi Singh (recorded Saturday 18 January 2020)

Live-streamed events bringing the best of our conferences to your own venue 

Through our state-of-the-art webcasting technology you will now be able to enjoy Confer’s most popular conferences without having to make the journey to London. This way you can…

  • Join the London event virtually in a Dublin venue
  • Network with local colleagues
  • Discuss some of the most interesting themes in psychotherapy
  • Communicate with the London speaker(s) during Q&A
  • Receive a CPD Certificate of Attendance




Registration and Coffee

Dr Akshi Singh

Facing up to Human Loneliness: Marion Milner’s Experiments with Solitude
Milner’s writing—autobiographical and psychoanalytic—provides an intricate account of what is at stake in the capacity to be alone—and what links or severs solitude from moments of creativity and insight. Her work allows us to think about what is necessary, mysterious, and terrifying about the prospect of being in the presence of ourselves, and the others who accompany our solitude.


Lesley Caldwell

The Place Where We Live: Being at Home Being Alone
Winnicott’s account of being alone in conjunction with the idea that home is where we start from concerns the patient in analysis, the widespread condition of homelessness in the contemporary world, but also the engagement with the art object and what it offers. Both aloneness and solitude are fundamental conditions for participating fully in everyday life and difficulty, and in being able to undertake an analysis. I am interested in how a concern with being in the particularity of the consulting room also offers a perspective on art and beyond.



Dr Richard Gipps

Love’s Possibility: On Loneliness, Madness and Human Dignity
A distinction can be drawn between feeling and being lonely, between ordinary loneliness and loneliness-beyond-loneliness. The capacity for ordinary loneliness may be compared to that for hunger: without an ability to register lack, one goes mad (loneliness-beyond-loneliness) or starves to death even if food or love is available. Recovery from mental illness requires developing the ability both to feel and to tend to one’s loneliness, and correlatively to develop or recover a sense that it’s intelligible that one be loved. Examples from poetry and from the autobiographies of psychotherapy patients are used to illustrate the central themes.




Handouts and tea/coffee included:


Self-funded x 2:

£55 (IACAT, PSI, IACP, IAHIP, ICP, NAPCP and EEAI members)


Certificates of attendance for 5.5 hours will be provided at the event


Gresham Hotel
23 O’Connell Street Upper
North City
D01 C3W7



09.30 Registration and coffee
10:00 Start
11:15 Coffee break
13:30 Lunch break
16:30 End


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